Don't date!

Well when I say 'don't date' what I mean is don't date until you are old enough. And even when you are old enough don't date, You should court. I really hate seeing all these 14 year olds' running around saying how in-love they are with their 'MCM' or whatever. UGH it really drives me insane! I am a hopeless romantic, Pride and Prejudiced, the Princess Bride, the Notebook: all
 of these are great vouchers of that. but what I am saying is I hate the drama that takes over in a relationship whiten a young immature couple who are still in High School!

The Notebook (Credit Google)

Pride and Prejudice (Credit Google)

The Princess Bride (Credit Google)

I believe people should wait until they are plenty mature to date, because what is dating for? Answer: To find your future husband or wife! So why would these teenagers still in high school need/want to find their spouse? Answer: They really don't, all they really want is to be like everyone else and have a boyfriend or girlfriend to be there for them, and be intimate with! 
That's it. Kids are too young stupid and way to immature to practice being married! As much as my desire is to be a wife, and then later to be a mom, I am very willing to wait. For two reasons.

1. Right now I know I am not ready to have a relationship with my future husband
2. also people change, chances are if I do think I have met the person I am going to spend the rest of my life don't you think I would want to be really sure? Well I do want to be Extremely sure!

I have seen what happens when two people meet when they are young, get married, then change. This is not something I want to happen in my life to my future kids. So I am going to be very sure. Make this decision extremely carefully with guidance and wisdom from people in my life who's opinions matter: like My Mom, and My pastor/and his wife (who are also my best friends parents). I trust these people with my (future) life! (LOL)

Anyway I guess why I wrote this is just to say. Please think about a relationship before actually getting involved (in any manor). If and when you are courting someone, please talk with older mentors in your life and ask their opinion of this person and a possible future for you two. Then when they give advice, do yourself a favor and LISTEN! I am sure whatevery they say to you is only in your best interest!